07-10-2010, 03:12 PM
(07-10-2010, 08:48 AM)Sambo Wrote: I dislike the south
you dislike all south ends. wow.. i live in the south in my city you bastard. (lol)
(07-10-2010, 02:46 PM)Profanisaurus Wrote:Quote:I also dislike "feminists" who make it their job to make women un-sexy. Feminism is awesome(y'know equaling rights for women?), but if your telling my girlfriend she shouldn't wear cloths she asks me to pick out that are suppose to make me look at her and want her then get your dyke/jelous/bullshit/ out of fucking life. Cause your doing it wrong.
I dislike clueless privileged fucks feeling they need to erect ridiculous strawmen or mansplain things that they clearly know fuck all about.
I sincerely doubt that the feminists you talk about - if they even exist, that is - are actually trying to say "DON'T DRESS SEXILY", but the very fact that your girlfriend asked you to pick out clothes that would make you want her is a pretty significant alarm bell regarding women's sexual role; I'd imagine that any of these women who allegedly tried to talk to her about it were not in fact saying "DON'T DRESS SEXY OMG" but were instead asking her to assess her actions.
Women's sexual gratification or empowerment should be about the women themselves and not about how it pleases men. Everyone needs to understand this, but it's especially important for women, when we're essentially indoctrinated into believing this bullshit. The sexual role of women is often described as being exclusively about the gratification of a man - pick up a woman's magazine right now. How many sex advice columns deal with female orgasm, or masturbation, or any kind of gratification for women? Not many. It's mostly about how to please men - how to bring the man to orgasm, how to best give a blowjob... apart from having an alarmingly heterocentric view, it's also very sex-negative towards women.
are you serious? the same exact thing could be said on a mans part, and females always go over the top with these things, its not that hard to give a blowjob haha, it's not that hard to please a man.. honestly it isn't.. women dress the way they wanna dress because they want to look hot and they want to get guys thats why they do it. its like you think guys dont want to please women or something..