What do you dislike?

[Chutzpar]

This is TMI but whatever:

I am a feminist.
I'm also a sub.

I understand that in being submissive, I am adhering to a stereotype that is expected of women. Feminism is about having that choice, sure, but it is ultimately about understanding where expected gender roles come from, and not being dominated by them.

Like I said:

Im not saying can't do it, or that she shouldn't want to, but she needs to at least be aware of where that role comes from