11-09-2012, 03:53 AM
I'm not religious myself so I'll won't go on about that part, after all I don't know enough about the Bible or any other holy book to be able to give an educated viewpoint on it, so I'll skip to the homosexuality part again.
Your sister having previously dated men could potentially mean that she is bisexual, or at least has some leaning towards men. Human sexuality is actually really broad rather than binary, so there isn't just straight, gay, bisexual, etc. There are varying degrees of attraction, and to be quite honest, I'll use myself as an example. I consider myself predominantly heterosexual, but I tend to find more feminine traits attractive rather than masculine, even in potential partners. I've even found some women to be rather attractive even if there wasn't any sexual desire.
Not to mention, ignoring the possibility of bisexuality, gay people have in the past (Back before it was less tolerated.) done things such as date or even marry people of the opposite gender regardless of their true feelings. After all, if you hide a "flaw", who is going to get on your case about it? Maybe your sister didn't feel like she would be accepted if she were outed as a homosexual, and so dated men to cover her tracks.
Fake edit: Also, I agree with Previous. If this discussion is to continue it should be moved into its own topic, but I'll get input from other mods before doing anything about that since things like this tend to be debates that never get better.
Your sister having previously dated men could potentially mean that she is bisexual, or at least has some leaning towards men. Human sexuality is actually really broad rather than binary, so there isn't just straight, gay, bisexual, etc. There are varying degrees of attraction, and to be quite honest, I'll use myself as an example. I consider myself predominantly heterosexual, but I tend to find more feminine traits attractive rather than masculine, even in potential partners. I've even found some women to be rather attractive even if there wasn't any sexual desire.
Not to mention, ignoring the possibility of bisexuality, gay people have in the past (Back before it was less tolerated.) done things such as date or even marry people of the opposite gender regardless of their true feelings. After all, if you hide a "flaw", who is going to get on your case about it? Maybe your sister didn't feel like she would be accepted if she were outed as a homosexual, and so dated men to cover her tracks.
Fake edit: Also, I agree with Previous. If this discussion is to continue it should be moved into its own topic, but I'll get input from other mods before doing anything about that since things like this tend to be debates that never get better.