01-23-2015, 03:23 PM
I don't really particularly feel sorry for anyone.
This is the one forum I've actively been apart of. Ever. I've been active here for over a decade now too, so I've seen a lot of people come and go. I'll keep in touch with the friends I've made, but whether or not they are apart of the community or not anymore isn't much of a concern for me.
If you decide to leave then it is your choice, if you get banned then at that point it's kinda your fault.
Actually I take that back, there are two members I feel sorry for. Dazz and Keychain.
Dazz gets way too much flack, he is actually a really cool and funny guy if you actually talk to him for any period of time. He sometimes acts without thinking, but in the end he just wants to do whats best for his community.
Then Keychain because of the whole topic of who she really is. I don't really think I need to delve deeper into that, except for this one point- A lot of people have started to say that Dazz is Transphobic because of it. I can tell you from personal experience that he isn't, not only does he respect my pronouns and treat me no different then before (besides calling me he/him), but even for people he doesn't particularly care for like Sengir, he refers to Sengir by her proper pronouns regardless of how he feels about her. I honestly think that says a lot for his character.
Also Dazz, I feel as if Lilo wanted to change and wanted to try, but didn't understand what trying meant. Which is weird, but some people just have different issues then others.
This is the one forum I've actively been apart of. Ever. I've been active here for over a decade now too, so I've seen a lot of people come and go. I'll keep in touch with the friends I've made, but whether or not they are apart of the community or not anymore isn't much of a concern for me.
If you decide to leave then it is your choice, if you get banned then at that point it's kinda your fault.
Actually I take that back, there are two members I feel sorry for. Dazz and Keychain.
Dazz gets way too much flack, he is actually a really cool and funny guy if you actually talk to him for any period of time. He sometimes acts without thinking, but in the end he just wants to do whats best for his community.
Then Keychain because of the whole topic of who she really is. I don't really think I need to delve deeper into that, except for this one point- A lot of people have started to say that Dazz is Transphobic because of it. I can tell you from personal experience that he isn't, not only does he respect my pronouns and treat me no different then before (besides calling me he/him), but even for people he doesn't particularly care for like Sengir, he refers to Sengir by her proper pronouns regardless of how he feels about her. I honestly think that says a lot for his character.
Also Dazz, I feel as if Lilo wanted to change and wanted to try, but didn't understand what trying meant. Which is weird, but some people just have different issues then others.