When I'm doing a favor for someone or a Good Deed and people are all like
"awww aren't you a good little helper/look at you standing there doing stuff! c"
y'know I could just as easily be not doing this thing
I have no idea how to describe the tone of something like this but I just hate it so Goddamn much.
Like just thank me and tell me you're proud of me if you want but don't be all condescending or make a huge notable deal of it or whatever and make me feel awkward discomfort and shame for doing it. I already have a hard enough time getting myself to do things. I wanna feel good about it not like I'm being mocked or like it's some huge revelation that I'm doing it.
"awww aren't you a good little helper/look at you standing there doing stuff! c"
y'know I could just as easily be not doing this thing
I have no idea how to describe the tone of something like this but I just hate it so Goddamn much.
Like just thank me and tell me you're proud of me if you want but don't be all condescending or make a huge notable deal of it or whatever and make me feel awkward discomfort and shame for doing it. I already have a hard enough time getting myself to do things. I wanna feel good about it not like I'm being mocked or like it's some huge revelation that I'm doing it.