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04-07-2016, 06:00 PM
Listen guys, I've been having some trouble on Mario Fan Games Galaxy, showing off my artwork and being negatively criticized... I REALLY need some help on how I can get through all the troubles, because I just don't know what else I can do. I mean, I want to be friends with people who appreciate my art, because being a 14 year old kid with autism and ADHD doesn't make me nice to others at times, it makes me a vicious, angry beast. Please, is there ANYTHING I can do? The founder of the website doesn't LOOK at the Art Topic, which is where all the debating happens. Please, I REALLY need help!
-Sincerely, KirbyLover2048 (Kirb)
PS: Here's the last post on the forum I found.
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04-07-2016, 06:56 PM
(This post was last modified: 04-07-2016, 07:04 PM by DragonDePlatino.)
KirbyLover2048. People on the MFGG forums have made it very clear why they took issue to your posts. On multiple occasions you have ignored constructive criticism, complained about it and created spammy posts. You're making Mit out to be the enemy here but if you look at the context of that post, its an entirely different story. You've argued with him every time he's tried to help you improve and have made no progress as an artist. Mit has been very patient with you up to this point so I'm surprised he hasn't said anything sooner.
If you want users to stop antagonizing you, then please listen to what people have to say. That means accepting constructive critisism when people offer it and changing your behavior when people are pointing out that you are being rude. Changing communities will not solve anything and even if everyone here gives you a fresh start, you will encounter the same problems if you don't change.
With that being said, don't feel bad if people dislike you now. A few users here used to have a bad reputation but over the years they've improved and became model members of the community. We're both relatively small communities and are willing to accept new faces if they get along with others. In the end, if you decide to improve, I promise that people will overlook your old reputation and accept you for who you are *now*. And if someone tries to point out how terrible you were years ago, people will be on *your* side this time.
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I got banned for one day, Dragon.
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(04-07-2016, 08:23 PM)KirbyLover2048 Wrote: I got banned for one day, Dragon.
Yes. And that should send out the message that you need to change.
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If you post something on a forum, people will comment about it. That's how forums work. And if you post simple and bad edits, people won't say good things about it. If people were unhelpful and rude, yeah that would be a problem. But on MFGG, almost everyone is giving you constructive criticism. They are doing nothing wrong.
If you don't want to hear people saying negative things about your sprites, just stop posting, or improve. And to improve, you need to listen criticism.
I made Super Mario Flashback, I guess.
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04-08-2016, 09:19 AM
(This post was last modified: 04-08-2016, 09:20 AM by eureka.)
Everyone's said what needs to be said so I'm just gonna say if you think MFGG is bad hoo boy you ain't seen nothing yet.
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04-08-2016, 11:39 AM
(This post was last modified: 04-08-2016, 11:40 AM by The Birdomatic.)
i agree with mors and dragon, if i have to be honest.
also, please dont use autism as an excuse. it gives other autists, me included, a bad name.
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I can guarantee you that this is not a bad community on any aspect. Like Dragon said, look at this thread here. I did possibly one of the worst things towards this website. I owned up to my mistake, and everything turned around for me. I stopped what was causing the issue and bettered myself. Now, I've gotten to know people and established people around me as my friends. You can do the same, it's just a matter of change. I know you may hate it, cause damn I sure do, but it may be for the better.
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04-15-2016, 11:00 PM
(This post was last modified: 04-15-2016, 11:00 PM by DioShiba.)
Normally I don't care about crap like this, but I think the general point is that you can't be defensive when it comes to critiques.
I mean hell if you have problems with what people are trying to tell you when it comes to critiques, then don't bother wasting people's time. It's just a gigantic slap to the face to those who are willing to help you if you don't listen to other perspectives.
On another note to OP, why bring this issue that's between you and MFGG on here? With all due respect it just seems this thread is going to create internet drama over something that has nothing to do with the general majority of this community, let alone this section of the forums.
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